I always liked that song and well, this isn’t New Orleans by any means, but its Home and it’s exactly where I am meant to be and for some reason that line of the song whether it was intended too or not makes me feel good. It’s another chilly but nice and bright sunshiney kind of day here at the House Up The Hill. Had a good breakfast and enjoyed reading my Brother In Law’s book to my Mother.
Being my Mother’s care-giver has opened my eyes and heart in so many ways. I can’t even begin to share the many lessons that I have learned from being here with her. I think one of the most important one is that People are rarely what they seem. For example, my mother is a tiny little thing weighing in just over 100 pounds and standing less than 5 foot tall. But boy howdy, she may look aged and fragile but this woman has the strength of someone that is twice her size and 10 feet tall. Oh, she worries about the little things on a daily basis but nothing ever really rattles her. She has that Doris Day, whatever will be will be attitude but by no means is she careless or uncaring.
This morning, out of the clear blue she says “I suppose you don’t like it”. I giggle to myself because she thinks about things and then talks about them without filling me in on the whole thought process So I casually ask..”What is it that I am not liking?” She wiggles into her seat for a conversation and says “Does it bother you that I tell people that you are my care giver?” I look at her wondering where this is coming from and say “No, Mom. It doesn’t bother me….I love being here with you and like I said before…I am here as long as you need me…no matter what”. She still has that thoughtful look on her face and says “But you are my daughter. Caregiver makes it sound like you are my servant.” I giggled. “Well….you are the Queen of the Castle”. She giggled and said “Well, then I guess we are ok”. I smiled and said, “Yes, We are just fine”.
Here are a few photos from around the castle this morning.
I’m off to do some baking so if you are in the neighborhood come on by for some tea and cookies












